Going shopping and to Dinner

A few days ago I had the opportunity to take a Saturday off. I went shopping and to dinner with a few friends. I spent most of the morning getting ready as I had a hour and a half drive. It doesn't usually take me that long to dress but it had been so long since I had gone out dressed that I decided to take a little extra time to get ready.

I had decided to wear a pair of skinny jeans with a bright red satin blouse and my knee high high heel boots. This turned out to be a good look especially after I put on a long gold and red coat. Actually I really liked the look that I had created.

Once i was ready to go I got in my vehicle and started to town. Once I got there I met the first friend at DSW shoes and we looked around with neither of us purchasing anything. We then went to the mall to Macy's for my friend to look for a silver purse which we didn't find. while in the mall I went to Radio Shack and purchased a new battery for one of my computers. We then met with another gal and decided to go to Ruby Tuesday's for drinks and to talk. Our waitress there was very friendly and made good conversation with us. She even took a few pictures for us and then posed with us for one.

After we left Ruby Tuesday's we went to the restaurant where we were to meet the rest of the group. There were several of us some were TS and some were GG's and somewhere SO's of other transgendered people. We had a great dinner and a great visit. With some discussions on what some of us had been through and was yet to accomplish.

Thanks to everyone for a great evening

The True Crossdresser's Dream

The True Crossdressers Dream

Before I get started let me say up front that what I am about to say is my opinion in the strictest form.

I have been a crossdresser myself for almost as long as I can remember. I am 58 years old and have been divorced once after my ex-wife decided she just couldn’t deal with the crossdressing anymore. I am now married to a wonderful woman that I love very much. She has known that I was a crossdresser from the time we met. Actually, I was dressed the first time we met. She has always supported me in any way that I chose to dress, whether it as male or female. She at times helps with doing my hair and selecting an outfit if we are going to go out on the town. However I always do my own make-up as she says I can do it better than she can.

Now here is what I think would be most Crossdressers dream. I believe that the majority of Crossdressers are heterosexual and prefer mates that are female. So I think every crossdressers dream is to have a mate that accepts and supports them in all of their endeavors regardless of what it is. Whether it be in work or play and even yes in the way that they present themselves. A wife that will keep them reeled in to so speak is often times needed. I know I like to dress a little trashy sometimes and my wife will tell me that is not appropriate for going out. If you are going to go out then you need to dress according to the event you are attending. We have attended a few formal events and we have gone to a club where you could dress a little trashy.

The thing that a crossdresser desires most is have someone they can talk with and someone to help to learn to deal with their individual situation. Crossdressers have a tendency to seek understanding and acceptance for whom and what they are. Therefore being the real crossdresser’s dream. Acceptance is everyone’s dream we can’t help who we are and not very likely will ever be able to stop crossdressing.

There are a few of us out there who have achieved and are living this dream. I feel that I am one of them. No not everyone in my family knows and hopefully never will but there again I still believe I am living the dream. Not everyone who knows I am a crossdresser approves but most accept the fact that I am who I am and that I am the same person regardless what I am wearing. This is the way it should be.

Thanks for reading and your comments are always welcome